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October 3, 2025

The shortest guide in the world to finding a community that fits you

After two years of advising thousands of people, I discovered there are really only three questions that matter.

Question one: what would you happily do even if nobody was watching? If you draw when you're alone, you need a drawing community. It's that simple.

Question two: when was the last time you laughed until you cried? People who make you laugh are one of the greatest treasures in life. Look for a community whose humor you actually vibe with.

Question three: how many times a month are you willing to commit? A community that meets weekly will give you far more than one that meets once every three months — but only if you actually show up.

That's it. No more secrets. Pick a community, go to one meeting, decide. If it doesn't fit — there are 67 more on the map.

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